please help. My yr11 daughter who is still 15 wants to stay out late at night, we've just 'upped' the coming home time to 10pm from 9:30pm but she wants to stay out until midnight or later. Her reason is to feel free, to wander as she pleases and to not feel trapped. (Her lockdown reason is that she is exercising). We know she's not meeting anyone since she will see her boyf earlier in the evening and he will go home by 10pm. She has always behaved well, come home on time and she is an outstanding student. We live in a small, very safe town, with little crime. However when we say need her to be home by 10pm in order to relax before sleep, that she needs to be up early to do lessons etc. she just answers stating her exemplary school and behaviour record. The thing is I could not relax if she's out late at night, on her own, even with a phone. Anything could happen to her, she's still a child and I feel she needs to be home, safe at 10pm. (she's also under the care of cahms for an eating disorder and has been self-harming for a few months, none of which she hides). we're waiting on cahms for an assessment of OCD or autism or whatever it is that makes her have episodes of being very distressed when something isn't right or she can't get what she wants. Any advice would be most welcome, many thanks.