It's a long story but my son has moved out he's 15 years old and is now living with a friend and his family. The social services have done a private fostering agreement which I haven't agreed to but apparently I don't have a choice it's up to him where he lives. I spoke to him last week and he has told me they are buying him a moped for Christmas knowing that I would have said he wasn't allowed to while living here.
Thing is now when I see him around he ignores me completely.
I feel like that's it now I have lost my son he's picking living with some strangers over his family.
His girlfriend was put in to care in May for assaulting her mum. They had a good relationship then she met my son and at first really liked him. when her parents put limits in on stuff they didn't like it and police where called loads of times. She asked to go home and they said she could if she splits up with my son she has refused and is now in foster care local. She has been told she can stay there till shes 21 or when she gets pregnant.
That's what her dad found out they had been messaging each about planning a baby. He doesn't like having rules and where he's living it like home for 10 maybe. At home i make the kids put there phones on charge at night in the hallway and I know that he is posting on Instagram at 3. 30am in the morning there. I told the social worker about him sending nudes last year and I was concerned that if he has his phone constantly he might do the same again. She spoke to the mother and the mother said if she found him on it he would lose it for a day. Thats what my son said but then said she wouldn't any way. He told me that there had been an argument in the house about the mother sending pictures to some one online she's only 31.
The social don't take any thing you say seriously his girlfriends parents think my sons dangerous and to a point its true. His behaviour has got better while with her because he's not with the usual lads. But I had a old friends mother at the door a few weeks ago because my son and his friend had threatened her son. I think he knows he can't take trouble to there door because they don't have to keep him.
Its hard because I see him most days and it's like we don't exist anymore.
Sal