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Dd 17 and bf 17

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Andi2020 · 30/08/2020 16:06

What is normal when teenagers stay overnight with each other
My dd 17 bf 17 I let him stay the night and even he comes over to go home again they just head straight to her bedroom no hello goodbye nothing.
This was only 2nd time to stay over
I cooked them breakfast but they didn't even come out to eat it but then his mum messaged him that she would collect him at 1 and my dd to come over to them for dinner
I would hate if my dd went in their house and didn't speak to anyone
I think its rude but I don't know maybe this is normal
My dad has met all his family at different family events this month and she showed me photos of her with them.
How can I change what she does.
He comes over 2 a week straight to her bedroom without even hello.
I gave out today before he left and he actually came to kitchen door behind her and said bye and thanks but I don't want a bye if it is because I gave out.
This is first boy she ever even brought to house so it's all new to me and I think I try to hard buying them treats etc

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WeAllHaveWings · 05/09/2020 23:16

As a minimum, for any friends, I would expect them to come and say hello when they arrive and at least sit down for 2 mins for a polite chat.

If you make/buy food, they eat with you.

To say goodbye and thank you before leaving.

If they didn't I'd tell dc they both need to have better manners or not invite anyone over.

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