So I’m hoping to move soon but houses in my town are probably too expensive. I’m a single mum and my DS is 14. I have no family or close friends nearby. If I move to another town (only 10 miles away) I could probably get a house I want but it would mean DS could no longer walk to school. I’d have to drop him off at school on my way to work. In the afternoon, when there aren’t time constraints, he could either come back with me or get the bus or train.
It worries me that if I were ill/had car issues then DS would have a difficult journey to school (train & 35 minutes walk) or a very early bus. His dad lives too far away to help at short notice and I have nobody else to help. I guess another worry is suppose he missed an exam became of it.
Also if I had to change jobs while he’s still at school I’d be quite restricted in where I could work.
Where we live now, he’s really independent as he walks to school, to meet friends, etc. However we live in a flat with no garden and it’s getting a bit claustrophobic as he gets older!
I know I might be overthinking the “what ifs” and I guess some children always rely on a parent to take them to school. I guess it seems worse as there’s nobody to help out.
Any thoughts?