Looking for some advice please.
DS13 has had self esteem issues in the past (saying he was rubbish at school work) but no other visible signs.
During lockdown he has started self harming (punching and hitting himself) this was due to being angry when not being allowed to play on his Xbox until he had finished his school work. He would make his school work last all day when is he had just got on with it, he could have finished in a few hours.
I had hoped that when school work finished it would improve but he still just wants to play on his Xbox all day and if we try to limit it, then again he gets angry and starts punching himself.
Pre-lockdown he was very active but is refusing to go back to his sports clubs as they are boring and would prefer to play on the Xbox. I have said he can choose a new club but he doesn't want to. He has put on nearly a stone in weight and is now quite unfit. When I suggest going for a walk or run, he will begrudgingly come but either not talk to me or be verbally aggressive towards me.
If he doesn't get his own way about anything he is verbally aggressive. I feely like i am constantly walking on egg shells around him. I do ask him not to be rude towards me and other members of the family but he still does it.
He is always remorseful at the end of the day but continues to behave like this the following day.
I can't turn off the wifi as all our phones are connected to it but even if I could he just punches the wall when we have tried to limit the time.
I'm at my wits end. I don't know how to help him. I read somewhere about letting him do what he wants and he will eventually limit himself so I have tried that this week but it hasn't helped.
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Stressedandbewildered · 04/08/2020 15:36
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