Hello all,
I am in need of desperate help/advice on my 15 year old daughter. She is our only child, we made the move to England from Cyprus when she was 7-I am Turkish my dh is British, dd is more British than she is Turkish so no adaptation issues/other barriers when we moved here. She made lots of new friends we eventually became friends with her friends' families, she always has been very sociable and loving child until hitting the teen years, she goes to all girls school in Year 10 almost 11- she had a wide friendship group in year 7-8 then as you all know girls can be all drama sometimes especially in all girls school year 9 her group became smaller or mixing up with other groups etc then the boys came in the picture, since end of Year 9/beginning of y10 they started mixing up with boys she made good boy friends! And now she decides boys are better friends than girls, girls are two faced but boys are honest etc she always wanted to have one bestie but girls can change hearts very quickly unlike my dd she has very high standards in friendships and she can't forgive even one wrongdoing. I must say she is much mature emotionally compared to her age group so maybe she sassed it out but I keep telling her how invaluable is girl-friendship bit she doesn't want to listen and says she found her best friends- who are boys! She still has girl friends to hang out with, she js liked by her peers but she chooses her boy friends even taking them to nail bar next week to accompany her!!! Sorry for the long post- do I need to worry? She says to me she can't wait to start university where she believes that she will find her best girl friends there