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Duke if edinburgh

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1357 · 22/09/2007 16:43

DS(14) has just signed up- is it really onerouse? What community stuff can anyone suggest for him to do?

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1357 · 22/09/2007 16:44

onerous!

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Lilymaid · 22/09/2007 16:48

My DS helped with a tennis course for younger children that he used to attend, so if your DS is involved in any sport, he could assist with classes/training for younger children.
BTW the major problem is usually the expedition - DS' teacher broke his leg and the expedition had to be postponed until this had healed and there were also problems with getting other teachers to go as well.

wheresthehamster · 22/09/2007 16:56

dd1 (15) on expedition this weekend. Apart from attending sessions relating to this she hasn't done any sort of voluntary work although she is a St. John Ambulance cadet, maybe that counts.

Can he help out at beavers or cubs?

zebrahead · 22/09/2007 16:57

I did bronze DofE and for the service section did some fundraising - cake sales etc - for a local charity. It's hard work, but it's really good fun as well, especially the expedition.

milliways · 22/09/2007 20:38

DD is on her assessed silver expedition this week.

She did her bronze in YR 10 & loved it. She did her service at a local nursery, this year with the church youth group. Others did the Library, GP surgery, OAP homes, Charity shops, Rainbows/Beavers, After school clubs etc etc.

It IS worth spending a few pounds on decent equipment though. Quite a few found that a Waterproof label is not always really waterproof after a weekend of continual rain. Goretex boots were great. we also got a very tiny lightweight COleman expedition tent which at first some laughed at until they saw how much heavier the larger ones were. These tents are actually quite cheap as well.

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lovey · 30/09/2007 09:48

My dd is amazing at tennis and taught little ones every saturday morning - has your ds got a skill he could teach?

heifer · 30/09/2007 09:52

I helped at a youth club, and helped at the hospital by taking beds down to the chapel every sunday evening..

Was fun, although I don't think I got as much out of it as I could have as I would have done the community stuff anyway through the young church group etc and even the physical activities and hobbies I just used what I did already..

I bet he loves doing it...

SignificantMother · 02/10/2007 11:47

I have just gone through the choices etc, with DD, and so if any of this helps - I am delighted.
Get them to go through ALL the choices carefully, and shortlist their favourites.
Get them to discuss with their friends who may also be doing DofE - they may prefer to do something someone else is for the company, rather than on their own.
Is there a chioce that is on the career horizon? If so, may be a good starting point.
Look at the practicalities together (i.e. can we get there, have we got time etc)
Be prepared to take a big gulp and promise to support, even if you have to get up at daft o'clock so they can "trek" somewhere!
I did DofE as a kid, and as a hopeless academic, it was 1 of my best ever things at school, so I am all for it.

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