During this lockdown trying to get us all to do stuff together such as watch a film play a game etc but DH always nags at the kids for something. They are 13 and 11 and yes they have a bit of attitude the 13 yr old especially is always glued to her phone and they do occasionally leave a mess behind them. As a unit of 3 we can do these things but not as a 4. We are all cooped up together so surely not nagging and just letting little things go is the way forward. Every day is a battle between him and the kids - always ends up far worse than it needs to be. They are missing their friends and activities so they are a little tetchy but he says they just need to suck it up and stop being stroppy but if he didnt nag and just let them be they wouldn't have as many reasons to be grumpy. He thinks there is absolutely nothing wrong with them sat in their rooms all day!!