My Dd has been with her boyfriend for almost a year and they are both 15. For a long time we thought he was lovely, he would be at our house every day after school until 9pm then it got later and was 10pm (so they could watch love island!). They would always be in her bedroom.
Fast forward to a few months ago and there was an incident where he purposely barged into her and she fell to the ground. Luckily I was nearby and happened to walk past so took her home (he raised his voice at me as I said we were going). Talking with her it turned out she found him a bit moody, sometimes getting in a mood about what she wears and when she saw her friends. So she doesn't see friends really anymore.
We said he was not allowed around anymore .
We did however invite him round for a chat, he said he does not get moody about what she wears but did not like her seeing those particular friends as she has smoked when she was with them and he doesn't like people smoking.
He has seemed better since he hasn't been coming around but this week we have found out that he sent inappropriate photos on snapchat to DD's friend back in September and it has come out in school this week. He has told DD that he did it because there was a rumour that she had kissed another boy back in July!
The girl he sent the photos to is distraught as everyone is cross with her as he has said that she is the one who sent photos to him. She has admitted she sent a photo back but not a nude one. I have another very reliable source who has told me that it was him sending photos to her and not the other way round.
What can I do to make my DD are that this is an awful relationship and it will only get worse.
Sorry that was so long and I hope it makes sense.