My son will be 18 in December. He's had a couple of relationships, 2 with girls who were major hard work and a lot of stress. He's been in tears and very upset at the end, plus is such turmoil thinking it's his fault etc. He's now with the loveliest girl, I can speak to her and chat away normally. He's said recently that he's not feeling her, there's no passion/lust. I'm in 2 minds. I want him to have that excitement and passion. But I really love this new girl, she's so calm and accepting of his hobbies etc. She still goes out and does her own thing and so does he. I love this as I think it's healthy. He feels so bad that he's not majorly into her. How do I make him not feel bad about his decisions?