DS is coming to the end of year 10 (if he makes it without being suspended) it’s been two years of declining behaviour ranging from silly things like throwing glue sticks at friends to rude and defiant behaviour and not doing any work. He is nothing like this at home. Yes he has teenage hormonal moments but he responds well to structure and boundaries, always asking if he can go out, abiding by curfews etc In the beginning I thought it might be a phase, he was adamant h didn’t want to leave his school (academy) despite that he is now at the point where his reputation precedes him and he can do nothing right. He’s given up on learning and on himself. He says he simply hates school and it would be the same wherever he went. At first I took on board what he said but now I wonder if it’s too late to change. If he stays where he is he will get suspended, possibly expelled. He will continue to hang out with likeminded mates and probably get into more trouble. If I move him there may be a chance, or it may be no different. Schools I have spoke too are not keen on taking him in year 11 understandably. But he can’t get any less motivate me etc now. I don’t know what to do. Any words of wisdom or similar experiences?