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At my wits end

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Wards006 · 24/01/2019 08:11

My 18yr old son is a nightmare he finished school but failed repeated subjects and failed all because we "forced" him to repeat. got a job in McDonald's lost that got an apprenticeship lost that got it back and left. Started a new job 3 days ago and won't go in today 😠 he's been caught selling drugs but denys it ended up getting away with it cause he's a good talker, crashed a robbed car wtf. won't follow any rules and thinks it's all my fault?????. He wasn't raised this way and turned into a compete arse at 15yrs old oh and how did I forget got a girl pregnant (which didn't continue) has been to counselling didn't work on tablets didn't take theme smokes wees. We don't support him financially. I want him out I can't deal with the drama he brings. If I tell him to leave how can I justify him being homeless I'm torn between love, duty of care and my own mental health. This sounds really bad but I actually hate who he is. Am I alone?????

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JiltedJohnsJulie · 24/01/2019 19:29

That does sound incredibly tough OP. I don't feel able to offer anything other than a Brew

Have you spoken to Drugfam? They may be able to offer some support Thanks

Blessthekids · 25/01/2019 17:22

Giving you another bump and hoping someone who can help with some guidance spots this.

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