My 15 year old son- party's- sex- drink!

[mumato5]

My son is going to a party Friday night- he has admitted to me that there is drink and I told him he could drink but don't come back drunk; then he told me he was planning on staying the night; I agreed as it's his friends house. But last night I was thinking that his girlfriends going to be there too, and there's drink. He's 15, I just don't want him to make any mistakes but they've been together since they were 13 so I don't think I can stop anything from happening. He his brother that he was still a virgin about 2 months ago but I'm worried hat could change. And even if I say he can't sleep round; i don't think that could make a difference. Any parents advice?

Hello, i'm not a parent. Truth be told i only made an account to see the property thread but my understanding is from a young males postion, is i'd want my mothers support and trust that i would only act with my girl friends consent and because i was ready too act. But maybe a parent should double check there protection avaiable and i understand IF it was used then atleast he had sex safe, which is a normal thing.

At 15 i went to my real first party, i got too drunk, i smoked and i laughed, it was an important experience for me. I learnt my lesson from the experience too. However i've got a good job now and a bright furture (my point is i turned out okay). As i'm sure you're aware at 15+ it's like learning to walk again but you want to walk indendent however its nice to know when you do fall someone is ready to pick you up and push back out again. Having your sons back will mean the world too him as he becomes a man. Your son will walk his own path, you just need to learn to adjust your role, i think mothers find this bit hard. This is my opinion however, best of luck too you and your son.

He will have sex eventually. Maybe not now. Maybe not for a number of years. But eventually. It’s your duty as a parent to make sure that he knows how to do it safely and respectfully. Please buy him some condoms, print out the sexual offences act 2003 and, have a very long, detailed talk.

@Alexsap good post!

I think condoms and a talk about consent is a good idea. The embarrassment factor could put him off for another couple of years.

Do you know the parents hosting the party? I remember my teen girls having a party and I refused to let a friends boyfriend stay over until I had spoken to both sets of parents. Funnily enough no parents called me.

Send him this link
He's probably seen it before, and ensure he has condoms just in case.

Erm, if you can't trust him don't let him go?

To be honest he's probably already sexually active, does he have access to condoms?