My 15yr old decided to move in with her dad last year for various reasons and he has since applied for all her child benefit/tax credits etc. When I see her she has no clothes, no winter coat, ripped school tights etc but won’t ask her dad for anything. She saves her Birthday and Christmas money to buy what she needs and it breaks my heart. I get her bits when she’s with me but I am struggling financially. If he was a ‘normal’ human being I would tell him she needs basic stuff but he will turn it round to her that I have been interfering. Surely if he had her money he should be providing her basics for her? I’m not expecting him to buy make-up or anything excessive but just what she needs. She currently has literally one pair of jeans yet won’t ask him for anything because ‘he has no money’. How is that fair on her and how do I broach it in a sensible non-confrontational way? (He has history of not accepting ‘criticism’ or being confronted)