My dd is 15 and in an online relationship with her gf who is 17. The gf cuts herself bounces back from parent to parent and has admitted mental issues. My dd has become addicted to talking to her online and feels like she can’t not talk to her or the girl will harm herself. My dd has gone from a B student to a failing student because her whole school day is occupied with talking to her gf. My dd also stays up all night to talk with her and they go 48hrs with no sleep. My dd’s behaviour started to change and has become violent and angry. I had to start monitoring their conversations and this girl has started to turn our daughter against us, telling her that things we do and say are abusive and is trying to convince her to runaway and be with her, my dd actually tried to do this and we had to call the police and things just got worse. We have had calls to the police and children’s aid by the gf saying we are abusing our dd and holding her against her will. She is now guiding my dd to make a case against us so she can be removed from the home and they can be together. We have started family counseling but nothing is bringing us back together as a family, this relationship has been going on 2yrs and I don t see it ending any time soon. I feel my dd is being brainwashed and there is nothing we can do to help her. We have contacted the police, our dr. and the school and it seems that we have no way to help her. My biggest concern is that she will be 16 soon and she can just leave if she wants to. I have lost all hope that we can help her and desperately need some advice or if there is something that we are doing wrong or need to be doing