I’ve tried everything but still their room is disgusting. I’ve cleaned it up myself but next day back to a dump. My oldest daughter is high functioning so her thing is toast and rolling the crusts into little balls and everywhere on her floor. She’s nearly 18 and I’m getting sick and tired of it. If I tell her off she’s onto the phone to the camhs team or social workers to tell them I’m a bad parent. She even told the social worker she had no clothes, all her clothes were on the floor dirty I had to show him her room, was mortified by it, plus she throws some of her clothes out all the time so constantly replacing clothes. She doesn’t even wash her room stinks of body odour. I’ve told the camhs team this and they say I should stop shouting at her. My youngest though is messy does clean up but refuses to sleep in that bedroom anymore so sleeps on my couch.
Can’t go on like this anymore, really sometimes feel like hitting her. Sits up all night talking to people online sleeps all day constantly swears or tells me to f**k off. Just had enough