Apologies of this waffles on a bit but here goes.......
My son has been diagnosed with anxiety and depression following family berevements and bullying at school. He got to the point where school was no longer an option and he stopped going in November and we deregistered in January. He has very low self confidence and has distanced himself from his friends at school. He has anger issues (punching walls, throwing, self harm) which has settled a little since leaving school but now he doesn't leave the house from one week to the next and has stopped doing any learning at home which he was doing quite happily. We have tried NHS and private counselling and they have sunk him deeper into depression. We have been offered support from CAHMS but we can't get him to leave the house to attend. Days can go past where he won't even aknowledge me or his Dad and will just watch videos on youtube for hours. He was offered a place at a college part time to do mechanics (he has been car obsessed since he has been tiny) and he was brave eough to go once for a whole day and we thought we had turned a corner then he stayed in bed for the next 3 days, didn't speak or eat.
I am at a total loss and feel an absolute failure as a mother and its effecting obvioulsy both me and his Dad. We both work full time (out of nessesity) so having to rely on family to drop in on him
I just want my happy hardworking son back and don't know where to turn, no amount of enthusiasm is helping and if he does leave the house it can take up to 4 hours for him to get ready and leave.
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Hemmy · 14/03/2018 21:06
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