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Nearly 18 year old ds walked in on me and Dhabi dtd last night

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lifesgivenmelemons · 15/10/2017 10:00

Have name changed for this,have been a longtime lurker but needed to tell someone about this and ask for advice.Ds is almost 18 he's had a good week this week passed an exam he was worried about and got a part time job so he went out with friends to celebrate.Me and dh have been having a rough time and I've been unwell so last night having the place to ourselves (which rarely happens) we decided to indulge in some quality time.
We put a blanket down in the front room lit some candles and everything got steamy very quickly. It was great until I heard a voice saying "what're you doing?" . I looked up to see ds standing at the door ,which was ajar, I screamed at him to get out and wrapped myself in a blanket. I was sure I'd locked the front door and left the keys in so he wouldn't walk in unannounced but he snook in like a stealth ninja. Dh went to talk to him while I tidied up. I did talk to him later and apologised for what he had seen and hope that he was ok. I haven't seen him yet today and later on we are hosting a big family gathering we have been looking forward to for ages. I'm feeling totally mortified.Tell me it'll all be ok ,please.

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justdontevenfuckingstart · 15/10/2017 15:50

Oh yeah, let me tell you about the time my daughter walked in on us...................................or not.

PickAChew · 15/10/2017 15:53

FGS, this place gets more like a trashy mag every day.

Mishappening · 15/10/2017 15:57

I think there is room for a bit of humour here - you are taking it all much too seriously. And FGS don't apologise - no-one has done anything wrong. Unwise, maybe, to use the living room, but not wrong.

EmmaGrundyForPM · 15/10/2017 16:11

Our 19 year old ds asked pretty much the same thing a few weeks ago when he was out and we went to bed for a shag. He came back early and banged on our bedroom door asking why we'd gone to bed at 9pm.

Luckily he didn't come in. I told him we were exhausted as hadn't slept properly the night before. I honestly don't think it occurred to him that we might have gone to bed early for any other reason. I suspect he thinks we haven't had sex since he was conceived.

Bluesandrose · 15/10/2017 16:24

The living room floor😂😂😂😂😂
Sorry I would die of embarrassment

Bluesandrose · 15/10/2017 16:26

He will never look at that living room the same again😂😂😂😂😂😂

LineysRun · 15/10/2017 16:26

Take A Break might be interested I suppose.

user1471456357 · 15/10/2017 16:28

Wtf, is happening to this forum Hmm

bengalcat · 17/10/2017 14:50

I'd have just said 'having sex , now piss off '

notacooldad · 22/10/2017 21:39

DS (17) walked in on us a few months ago unintentionally one Saturday morning. To be fair he thought we had gone out.
All we heard was a huffy 'Jesus Christ' and the door slam.

It wasn't mentioned over breakfast later!!

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