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Teenage boys hair loss

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PJ67 · 05/03/2017 21:46

My 18 year old ds is getting a bit worried about receding at the hairline. His dad and grandad went bald at a young age and I think it's getting him down. I'm torn between trying to be positive about baldness and how it doesn't matter etc but at the same time wondering if he should consider any of the hair loss treatments available. He finds it quite hard to talk about things but has said that he would like to try and delay it but doesn't think anything will work. Any advice welcome.

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Kenworthington · 05/03/2017 21:50

No idea but my 18yr old Ds has an almost bald patch at the back of his head. In fact I noticed today he is getting a second one. He said his hairdresser told him it was a birth mark and its lighter hair (it's def not). It's weird as he used to have such think lovely hair but I think he's quite paranoid about it so I'm not going to mention it to him again.

WankersHacksandThieves · 07/03/2017 18:41

Aww that's really tough :( I don't have any advice but I don't think it is that uncommon, would he go to the doctors? I think it's sometimes caused by high levels of testosterone - no idea if caught early they can counteract that?

I think a lot of male pattern baldness is also genetic, although my adult nephews went bald in their late teens/early twenties but my DB (their dad) at over 60 still has a full head of hair as does my SIL's dad and brother.

Bumdiedum · 07/03/2017 21:52

If it was me I'd take him to the GP. I've heard it is a lot easier to keep your hair in than get it back again once its gone. It's easy to say get a buzz cut and embrace it, but when you're at the age you're looking for job/love it can really dent your confidence and mental health. If he knows what the options are he can decide if he wants to have a go at keeping it or just go with it. At least then he and you will know you tried.

MrsMarigold · 07/03/2017 21:57

Go to the doctor my brother's hair started to fall out at 16, he's now 37 and quite bald but at 16, he was teased. He only recently told me it really affected his confidence. He also said at Uni people assumed he was in his 30s (he's done a lot of outdoor sports which age the skin) and asked him abut being a mature student.

PJ67 · 07/03/2017 22:35

Thanks for the replies. We've stated having a look at what potential treatments are available although it's a bit of a minefield. Not sure if the GP's have much knowledge in this area but will do a bit of research.

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kathyinmanchester · 08/12/2019 22:36

Hi PJ67 I am just wondering if you got anywhere with your doctor/found anything that helps? I am extremely worried about my son who is only 14 and has thinning hair, a receding hairline and a bald patch at the back of his head. I am so gutted for him, but am trying not to make a fuss to make him feel worse. We went to the doctors with something else and I brought up the subject of "thinning hair". The gp examined his scalp and said it was fine and there was nohting she could recommend - just make sure he was getting all the right vitamins. He has been taking hair, skin and nail vitamins for a while but I don't think it makes any difference. I have looked at shampoos etc but they are all for over 18's. Would be interested to hear whether anyone has come across anything else? Many thanks

BrokenWing · 09/12/2019 00:01

Ds(14) has very thinning hair at back and hairline. We went to gp where he got blood tests which were all clear. He got a referral to a dermatologist with a specific interest in hairloss, which I got through my work health plan so we got seen quicker.

She examined him closely with various equipment and said she can see from the skin and hair folicals it was basically typical male pattern baldness, and very unlucky it is so early.

She prescribed minoxidil (regaine for men) twice a day and ketoconazole shampoo twice a week on prescription (we are in Scotland). She said it works for some and he will need to try it consistently for at least 6 - 9 months before starting to see any potential difference. She also told us to stop giving him a multivitamin with vitamin A in it as too much can add to hair loss.

She said we could try other vitamins/etc but none were clinically proven for a reason so she didn't recommend wasting money on them, although we do now give him a general /hair vitamin without A.

She also said there was an option of a hormone suppressant, can't remember the details but again she said at 14 she wouldn't recommend as there are unwanted side effects. We have discounted that as a route to go down.

Other, expensive Alternate is hair transplant but she emphasised that would be something he might consider as an adult but to come back and talk to her as it is very invasive with a high risk of infection and it is important to go to the right place.

We are about 4 months in and dont notice much difference yet. We do make an effort now to take him to the barber every 3 weeks as it looks much better when consistently short/neater at the back and ds feels better now he is doing something that might work.

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