Hello all, my eldest DD is 15 years old and nearing the end of year 10 at school. She has always been a high achieving girl and is a perfectionist, therefore if she ever gets bad marks she is more upset with herself than anything. I as a parent do not push her as she is very motivated and driven, and I would never put pressure on her.
However, recently she took her grade 5 oboe exam and broke down in tears because she was so stressed, and so redid the exam the following day and managed to get through it.
Today she did her Spanish speaking controlled assessment (AQA) and broke down in tears again during it, in the first sentence, even though she had achieved perfect marks and an A* on the previous writing CA. She was allowed to do the speaking again as she had stopped on the first sentence, but stopped on the first sentence again and got panicky.
She did it a third time and managed to get through it, but this is really concerning me and I'm worried about next year, as it appears that in any exam which is not written, she gets too anxious to perform well and is unable to do anything on the first try. What should I try to do to help her?