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Deeplysatisfied · 11/06/2016 17:51

DD16 wants to go to Leeds festival this summer although I'm not sure. It's her 17th at the beginning of August and she's wanting the ticket as her present but still comes with a hefty price of £220. I just don't know how safe these festivals are with the type of stuff that goes on such as drugs, etc. DD would be going with a big group of friends all between 17/18 about 10 of them so she won't be alone. WWYD? She has been practically begging me since last year and assured me that she will be responsible but thes the type of girl that stays out all night partying so I'm not sure how far the trust goes with her. She's sensible but I think a festival for 5 days especially one as big and potentially dangerous is questionable. Has anyone had their DD/DS son attending? What are the pros and cons of this? I think being outdoors that long would be beneficial for her but I don't really know what to do especially with the price.

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bigTillyMint · 15/06/2016 12:49

If she is actively seeking work and is earning the odd bit here and there, then could you ask her to put x amount towards it and get her to do chores or something for you then make up the rest as her birthday present (if you can afford it)? It sounds like she is really desperate to do it and would pay if she could.

GeorgeTheThird · 15/06/2016 12:53

If she's that desperate she'll be able to get a paper round when the regular kids go on holiday.

Deeplysatisfied · 15/06/2016 13:08

I think I may take the idea of asking for a contribution, she happily does favours for others such as washing cars inside and out and childminding to earn. Also I wouldn't even bother suggesting a paper round to DD as its just not worth it for £12 a week it also would probably cause her a few problems as walking a distance can be an issue due to problems with her legs

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PickAName456 · 29/06/2016 16:12

So glad I found this thread, 17yo dd, is going to local festival for two nights.

Even though I helped persuade her Dad that it would be great experience and that she'd have a great time and was old/sensible enough, and was paying for the tickets herself, I don't think I've slept properly since, imagining all sorts of horrible disasters, and worrying that Dad was right and I'd got it wrong.

Reading this makes me realise that she'll be OK and fingers crossed she'll have a great weekend. Thanks, might be able to stop worrying so much now Smile

ExitPursuedByBear · 29/06/2016 16:14

Let's hope we have a dry August!

Deeplysatisfied · 29/06/2016 21:23

DD has actually surprisingly managed to save £100 in 2 weeks!! This is all through childminging in order to contribute to the cost. I'm proud of her for this and she managed to find a ticket that costs only £190 so I offered to pay the other £90. Don't think I'll stop worrying though Hmm

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