Have had an awful two years with DD (now 17, 18 in spring) including OD, self harm, depression, eating problems you name it. She has dropped out of college and now lost two jobs. Have never got to the bottom of the problem and she has refused countless offers of therapy etc. Latest phase is sleeping around. In the last three weeks she has been using tinder or similar to 'hook up' with loads of men, usually in there 20's. She has also gone into town and been picked up in bars by men. Quite often she doesn't come home overnight. She will usually text to let me know she is ok and whether or not she'll be home. She is polite and pleasant in the house unless I bring up the subject in which case she gets surly and walks away. Not doing much in the way of chores but does her own washing, will cook sometimes and has started job hunting again as she says, much as she loves us, she wants to move out. If it wasn't for the history of mental health problems I guess I'd let her get on with it but deep down this just feels like more symptoms of low self esteem - it's so risky I wonder if it is actually just another form of self harm. DH and I are now beginning to fall out over it - he can barely speak to her. She pays for her own phone from money she earnt before she got sacked and she still has quite a bit of that left. In herself she seems less depressed than previously, however my experience has been that she appears brighter when the self harm and eating problems are at their worst. No sign of SH at present and eating well. Sorry for long post - wanted to give the whole picture. I'm finding this harder to deal with than anything so far and keep getting very teary. Please help me negotiate this one.