I have just found out that my DD has been smoking, I am devastated. I had a talk with her last night and she says she doesn't want to stop. I smoke and I hate it, it's one of the worst mistakes I ever made and she knows this. I try to keep it away from the kids and smoke outside. I am divorced from her Dad and he smokes weed around her whenever she is with him and I am scared that will be next.
DH has gone mad with me and told me to make her smoke a pack of 20 one after the other or ground her. I honestly don't know what to do. I am so disappointed and upset but don't know whether to punish her or what? DH and I now not speaking because he thinks I am being too soft. What should I do?