Sorry this is a long one, any advice please. My dd is 15- 16 end of the mth. She was lovely until she met her bf bck in jan. We have had a nightmare of a yr with her. She always wore nice clothes and always made herself look good. since shes been with him shes now wearing black hoodys, just black, listening to that sreaming music, She started self harming becoz he does, he controls her, hes possesive, she has come home with a briuse on her cheak- she doesnt know how she got it. Hes cheated, she hasnt got many friends left, he gets angry and punches walls near her face- all sorts have gone on and she cant see hes no good- hes the love of her life! any way 4 wks ago she went mental at her dad calling him awful names, he then went to take her phone away as punishment and she attacked him- bite, punched and kicked him- wished him dead everything. He threatened to phone the police and she ran off to his house! i txt her to come home etc and she refused saying that his family love her more and shes never coming home. I left it hoping she would see sense but no- instead his sister rang social services and a wk later we had the visit with all our kids present as social wanted to see them aswel. We told them evrything that had gone on and they told us dd had phoned the police that nigt and made a statement saying that her dad had grabbed her by the throat- couldnt believe the lie. but then she dropped it. It turns out that shes not at bfs house but at his sisters. I mentioned that I think her bf is being abusive towards her and social agreed as all the signs were there. It took them a wk to get hold of her and visit her and now social services are not giving me an address where she is. They want me to meet up with dd with a social worker present. I've tried all wk ringing the social worker to arrange an appointment to see my dd. Today I had enough and rang the non emergency police to see if they could find her and bring her home but all they said was its down to social services! If social services feel like her environment is unsuitable then thats when they inform the police to get her! I feel like im hittin my head against a wall. All my friends and family are shocked at how she has changed.we are so worried about her, found out over the wkend that shes been out with his mum and sis drinking! shes still refusig to come home. shes even been sacked from her paper round for not showing up- even her boss has been worried about her as hes seen her change this past year. She did show up one day last week but he said she looked a mess- unclean etc. I just dont know what to do and feel let down by the services. I feel that I havent got any parent rights at all. I feel that they social services dont care and have plonked her file on the bottom! we just want her home :( anyone else been through this - I feel as thou im the only one :( x