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Help! Hosting teenage party tonight. Please tell me what to do our not do!

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Strawberriesfortea · 24/06/2015 11:01

DSD is 18 tomorrow and we've agreed to let her host a party to celebrate tonight. But she's our eldest child and we've not done this before. Am feeling rather nervous Confused

We've agreed to buying some alcohol, but no spirits, and they've been told not to bring spirits either. We'll be in the house ourselves.

But what wisdom can people give me? Tell me your experiences of teenage parties, what to do or not do.

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SanityClause · 25/06/2015 12:56

My friend did this for her DD's 16th.

She met them at the door, and took their bags "for safekeeping", and left them in the hall, which has a lockable door from both inside and outside the house.

When the first guest asked her for their bag, she took her into the hall, and got the bag, the asked if she minded opening it. Of course, there was a large bottle of spirits in the bag. She joked "oh, you shouldn't have!" but then let the guest take the bag, but not the drink, which she said she would give back after the party.

She didn't have many asking for their bags, after that!

She did serve alcopops and beer at the party, alongside soft drinks. I think she catered for about 2 alcoholic drinks each.

I guess yours is different, because many of the guests will be over 18. But I don't see why you shouldn't ask to either check, or "check in" bags at the door. If they have brought spirits, just tell them they won't need it, as there is plenty provided, and you will give it back, when they go.

3catsandcounting · 25/06/2015 21:21

Spirits are the work of the devil for teenagers, I tell you!!
I have a stained rug, a smashed vase and a chipped Delft plate (which was on the bloody wall!) to prove it!! They were all suitably apologetic though! ????

DisgraceToTheYChromosome · 29/06/2015 22:58

We hired the community centre for DD's 18th. Got a pay bar, DJ and did a bag search. All the booze confiscated (not much) was given back when the bar closed. A lovely time was had by all.

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