I am a mum to 3 older teens. No problems with drink, drugs etc. But, after my mum suffered a stroke last week, it suddenly dawned on me what a selfish trio they are. My husband works away from home and I work full time. The house is a shit hole. None of them even offer to make me a cup of tea or even ask how their Nanna is doing (my mums not the best grandmother in the world so I can understand this). I am the only person my mum has but feeling the pressure of work/kids/daily hospital visits. Not like me, but feel I'm about to crack and I'm having trouble sleeping. Advice please! I know I need to get some perspective but constantly feeling guilty about being particularly good at solving anything at the mo!