A few months ago I found out the my 15year old daughter was seeing this lad, I was abit upset as it made me realise that she wasn't my little girl anymore, anyway I then found out that this lad was, well let's just say that's he's not the sort you want around you daughter, so I spoke to her about it and few choice words were exchanged and she told me that she wasn't seeing him anymore, which I didn't believe for a second.
I have have since caught her with this boy a few times and she is still insisting that there is nothing going on and I have said to her that as long as she tells me the truth then I won't stop her from seeing him and she has promised me that's it's finished.
Well the last straw came when I was driving home from work and yet again saw her with down the side of some shops talking, so when I asked her about it she lied to me again telling me it wasn't him it was her friends boyfriend and that they was talking about her friend because they had had a argument, but I know that it was the boy that she keeps telling me she isn't seeing and she has lied to my face.
Out of anger I have told her she can stay at her dads until she is ready to tell me the truth and that he can put up with hers lies cause I have had enough, she said she didn't want to go but I made her because I was that angry.
Her dad is pretty much useless so will not encourage her to tell me truth and now I am worried sick that I made a huge mistake in sheer anger and what am supposed to do if she never tells me the truth, do I just let her come back knowing that she is constantly lying and in a way she has own and I have proved nothing. ( she has been gone 4days now)
We used to be very close as it was just me and her for 8 years until I met my current partner and I just want that closeness back, I have always been very open with her and told her she can talk to me about anything, I may not always like it but she can still speak to me.