Right .. My DD (14) is a complete drama queen & a little princess expecting everyone to fall in line with her demands.. I don't know how to link to my previous posts but they explain her attitude.. So tonight she has an argument with her boyfriend of 9 months (he's 15) about him laughing at her about something trivial.. I get on very well with the boyfriend so he texted me to say she won't answer her phone, please check on her. I did & she was absolutely fine, just a bit stroppy about him taking the piss out of her inability to do maths homework. Clearly she spoke to him at some point because he then sent me a text saying "PLEASE KEEP AN EYE ON XXXX PLEASE CHECK ON HER NOW AND SPEAK TO HER ALL NIGHT PLEASE " I spoke to her & she was fine. Then got another text from boyfriend saying "PLEASE KEEP CHECKING ON HER. FOR ME PLEASE :((((" I've checked her again all ok, boyfriend hasn't responded to the why do I need to check on her text I sent, but I know his parents take his phone away at night so he's not up all night texting DD. So I'm assuming she's being a drama queen, in which case I'm appalled at her manipulative behaviour, but at the same time I can't afford to take the risk that she might be seriously thinking of self-harm & I'd be a horrible & negligent parent to be so dismissive if there's real issues going on that I don't know about & she really feels that bad about herself