Right, been through this with 16yr old. 13 yr old doing it now. "If you don't answer me then I'm right, yes I am aren't I, you know I'm right because you're not talking to me"
Got himself grounded because of swearing at me yesterday (off sick off school?!).
Wants to go to Youth Club to see someone. Can't accept that he could phone, text etc. Said to him that on no account was he going, said no yesterday and meant it (go custy, go custy..!).
Until hell freezes over , said I. He does a f..ng pic on the comp of that same thing. Told him I'd been through that with oldest one and he'd bullied me into tears and serious stress and that this one won't win. Said if it's good enough for DS1 it's good enough for him.
He won't f...ng shut up, keeps on and on and in a minute I'll lamp him one. He's keeping the 7 yr old awake and keeps making smart arse remarks.
God, I can't go through this sarcasm, abuse and general shit again, I just can't. He knows I'll stick to my guns because last time he shut his door on me and swore at me, I ran at it and took it off the hinges. I'm tired, it's Friday and the nagging has been on since 4pm. I strated to well up and the little shit tells me it's no use crying, no-one cares, seen it all before and I'm being emotionally immature.!
He's supposed to be goung to Drayton Manot tomoprrow with YC and his sister (£44) for two of them and he's on thin ice. Told me I'd run out of people to tell if I carried on, because I was going to phone YC leader up and tell them. It's church involved as well so he should know better.
Just come in and slammed door in my face. Just want a quiet life, stressed out with work and kids at the mo.
Oh well, bed time soon. Just have to wait until he's asleep now (bang goes my early night) in case he sneaks out. DH out too.Voice is cracking from all this talking. Why the FUCK can't no just mean FUCKING NOOOO!!!!!!!!