Hi, I'm new to this so hope my post is okay. My daughter has never really had one best friend but has always has friendships. In March she met her current boyfriend, she was 16 and he was 22. Immediately became very close and my husband and I reluctantly allowed him to stay overnight. She was approaching her GCSEs and we wanted to keep things as calm as possible to support her studies. Boyfriend then lost his job and she started staying over at his (lives with his mum) or him staying at ours. She refused to go on our summer holiday abroad as she didn't want to leave him, so stayed at his. Eventually she has started her apprenticeship, with a lot of help from me, but her behaviour when she is in is awful! Silly things like leaving room a tip, but always has bf with her - we never see her alone. When challenged on anything she is aggressive, swears, has pushed me and 'threatens' to leave. She stays at his a lot, and I'm starting to dread her being in the house - I have even changed jobs from working from home because I couldn't stand feeling intimidated by her. She has now also started being argumentative with my husband (step dad since she was two) and I honestly just feel like telling her to get out if she cannot be reasonable. She basically comes in, has a bath, cooks for both of them, causes a row by not clearing up then leaves. Am I being awful if I tell her to just live at his? If I do, any ideas on how to actually get her out? Feeling desperate!