Hello,
got a couple of concerns so may post separately! First one..have found out that YD, who is a very complicated individual and has a tendancy to lie about a lot of stuff (what did I do wrong in her upbringing...case of nature and not nurture here?) is two timing her new boyfriend with her old boyfriend. Won't admit it but me, and her sister have found her out a couple of times. Realise I should keep out of it but it breaks my heart, new boyfriend is lovely lad, has just returned from works trip away for a week and cooked her roast dinner, gave her fantastic arrangement of flowers and wine cos he missed her. In meantime she is still in contact, and am pretty certain is still seeing old boyfriend . Been rumours before about her and boys and she always denied them but now I am not so sure.
Sister had a talk to her saying she would get found out and hurt and that it wasn't a nice thing to do and she just kept saying, in her usual sarcastic voice when you are saying something she doesn't want to hear,
"Alright then"
She is a very mixed up person I feel, and in fact we are going to docs next week as she has the shakes (hands in partic lately, and anxiety problems (no surprised if she running two relationships!) and always has had a job with the truth from a very young age, would say black is white if it suited her...and yes we did tackle it but it seems to have made no difference.
Anyone had experience of this..advice? :-(