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Has anyone got a ds or dd at an Army College?

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triplets · 02/08/2014 15:46

My 16yr old son has just passed the selection and got a place at Harrogate Army College starting next March. Would love to hear from anyone else who may be in the same "camp" so to speak! :)

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TheFairyCaravan · 02/08/2014 15:48

My DS1(19) is at ATR Winchester doing his Phase 1 training atm. He is 4 weeks in.

Congratulations to your DS!

triplets · 02/08/2014 16:01

Well done to your ds too :) What role does he want?

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TheFairyCaravan · 02/08/2014 17:20

Thanks Triplets. Smile

He wants to be a gunner in one of the Reconnaissance regiments. He wanted to Infantry for a long time, got fit for it, then changed his mind three days before his interview!

We wouldn't let him join at 16 because we wanted him to do A levels, which he did, so he can still go for his commission. He has wanted this since he was at primary school.

He went for selection in April and was in training by July. He said it is like being in a hamsters wheel, it is continual and long days. He has to get up at 5:30 and in bed at 11:00. (They are checked they are in bed and lights out Grin). He has had a bad day where he wanted to come home, but only once, but he is happy and enthusiastic. He got his first months pay on Thursday, he said he has never seen so much money in his bank account! Grin

We had to drop him off on the day, DH and DS2 had a camp tour I didn't go because I am disabled and couldn't keep up so I had a chat with the Major. When we left I cried like a baby, as did most of the mums. They have their phones and we ring or text most nights. I give him little pep talks. He can come home for the first time in 2 weeks!

They like to see that they are receiving parcels, so we and PILs send things like cereal bars, toiletries, Jelly Babies, cards and letters on a regular basis.

It is really odd not having him at home. But every time I talk to him he has something new to tell me and has achieved something else. I'm really proud of him, I do have little cries every now and again, because I miss him but I am so glad he has done what he set out to do.

lljkk · 02/08/2014 17:45

Oh Congratulations to Triplets!! I wish I had a dC that motivated.

triplets · 02/08/2014 22:06

Well I loved your essay! I can feel how much you are missing him, that is something I am dreading. Its such a huge step isnt it? One minute they are safe at home, your child...........the next they are out in a tough new world on their own! I think they are brave to do it. It still hasnt sunk I really!

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