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Teenage daughter suicidal

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ANNABANANNA12 · 30/06/2014 22:22

Hi there
A few months ago I found out my dd aged 13 had been messaging some boy she had met on an online chat site. He lived the other end of the country so luckily she had no chance of meeting him but the vests I had seen were rather explicit. I banned her from her ipad and thought that was the end of it.
Last week I was on her phone and found out from a chat conversation with her schoolmate that she had been sending nude pics of herself to a boy, I was sick to my stomach, turns out that he had bullied her into it and had threatened to send them viral. He is the same age as her.
I noticed she was wearing long sleeve tops and asked her why, turns out she has cut herself only superficial thank god. I found out tonight that she has been in contact with the first lad and she was making plans on running away yo where he lives, " so that my mum will never find me" she had put on one of her messages.

I asked her about it, she said she hates me, wants to go and live with her dad etc. she keeps saying she wishes she could start again.

Her dad is aware of what's been going on and he came round tonight to talk to her. My husband thinks she wants me and her dad to get back together, I don't think so . I a going to the school tomorrow to let them know what's been happening. I just feel sick to my stomach with everything does anyone have any advice
Thanks in advance xxxx

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ANNABANANNA12 · 30/06/2014 22:23

Sorry for spelling errors it's on auto word thingy

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Goldmandra · 30/06/2014 22:25

I think anyone coercing a 13YO into sending them naked pictures of herself should be reported to the police.

LynetteScavo · 30/06/2014 22:26

I don't want to scare you, but are you sure she sent the pics to a 13yo?

He hasn't bullied her, he's blackmailed her. I would be going to the police.

ANNABANANNA12 · 30/06/2014 22:28

That's what my hubby said. I'm going to see what the school say tomorrow. I can't believe she didn't tell me

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ANNABANANNA12 · 30/06/2014 22:29

Apparently the boy only lives a few roads away from us but sick at the thought that anyone else might have seen them

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ANNABANANNA12 · 30/06/2014 22:32

Can the police do anything if he is the same age as her. I wanted to go round when I found out and knock him out but managed to stop myself

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Goldmandra · 30/06/2014 22:33

I'm going to see what the school say tomorrow.

The school staff are not the right people to advise you about this and they may have their own agenda about protecting this boy.

Just dial 101 and talk to somebody now.

ChillySundays · 04/07/2014 13:28

It is an offence to have indecent pictures of a minor stored on phone or computer. It is also an offence to circulate the photos. It doesn't matter if they are the same age. I would go to the police. Even if it is officially not taken any further it will hopefully mean the photos are deleted and it will scare him shitless and won't do again so saving other girls from going through what your daughter is going through

CeliaFate · 04/07/2014 14:31

Definitely report to the police. I would go to the local station in person.
Take her to the g.p. for a referral to CAMHS.
Contact the school - give them the full story and ask their advice.
Your poor dd. Sad

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