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Teenagers

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Dd 14

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lightupthere · 15/05/2014 15:50

Dd and I left an abusive situation. H. cheated, lied, and is verbally abusive.

Dd was influenced by her father to return home. She went from being very close to me to hating me. I don't see her, she wants nothing to do with me. Her father badmouths me to her, tells her I don't give them enough money (lie) and that I abandoned the family. Our family doctor recognized that the abuse was too bad for me mentally and physically. Dd wanted very much to leave.

I've consulted lawyers and Custody access, they say she's too old to get custody and access.
I'm having trouble handling the pain of losing her.

OP posts:
Charlotteamanda1 · 15/05/2014 16:25

I can't imagine the pain your feeling.
She will one day realise what has happened. Keep in touch even if she doesn't respond. That way your keeping the door open for her to return or build your relationship back up. I hope this happens soon.

LastingLight · 16/05/2014 07:25

((HUGS)) As she matures she will see the truth. Hard as it is you just have to hang in there.

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