My ds13 has received a joint disco birthday invite from three friends at school, two girls and a boy. It's a disco in a hall sort of thing and looking at the invite E mail about 50 children have been invited. He is friends with all three of them. What's the deal re presents, cards. The invite was signed by all three parents. He doesn't want to take presents but I said I would put money in a card but that's £30 if I do all three. What's the etiquette
With teenagers? Plus if everybody does this birthday kids potentially will pocket £500 each which seems amazing.