Ds1 (16) has a girlfriend (15). They are both vulnerable because of difficult home lives. Although D's and I are no longer in harms way.
This evening, the kids were messing about, I think D's may have wound his gf up too much. She decided to bite his lip, in retaliation. It bled.
I did say to her that it wasn't a good thing to do and that stuff like that could damage their relationship.
She went upstairs and then DS followed her up. A short while later, he came back downstairs and told me she said deserved it.
IM NOT HAVING THIS. I said to myself.
I went upstairs an calmly told the gf that nobody DESERVES that, no matter what they had done. I explained that she needs to walk away or talk it through and also told DS that he needs to learn when to stop, take note of the signals.
What do I do now? She is one very mixed up girl. She needs help, but won't see a counsellor. It would seem my DS needs a bit of education too, but what?