Oh i am at a loss as to how to handle my dd anymore.
She is not a wild child but still a very difficult one to parent.
She has a deep and quiet personality and one of those kids that is bone idle and would literally not get dressed or get fresh air if i didnt insist.
She would jump up to get ready though if i said we were goin shopping or something like that and has friends so its not as if she reclusive -just lazy.
I have noticed twice recently that her friends while here visiting have kind said to her hang on give your mam a break. She has started to get very personal in her insults towards be and extremely defiant. If i even said turn down the tv while she would be sitting right next to remote she would say in a minute and continue to ignore me.
So last night after a few different small things she wouldnt do i said ok i have had enough and turned off wifi. This had made her worse as she has said now that she can do what she likes as i cant punish her anymore then i have! She is expected at an event this eve and is refusing point blank to go.
I am seperated from her dad but i have just told her rightly or wrongly that i am giving her 30 mins to think about her behaviour and then i am phoning her dad to come and have a word.This is the first time ever i have had to resort to him.
I told her i cannot have a teen under my roof who is defying me and who i cant control.
As i have said she is the deep type that wont ever tell me anything about what is going on. I dont have her passwords for facebook or mobile and she wont friend me on fb.
Please advise me.............she is my first dc and i havent a clue what to do.