My DS didn't really work at school but got good GCSE'S . Then in sixth form they introduced girls and my DS fell head over heels for his GF. Nice girl new to the area but since them everything went up in smoke he got terrible As and didn't really recover although his A2 s weren't bad he didn't get his grades. He missed his Uni place and GF went to Uni and broke up with him be was in a right state and everything went a bit downhill for a while ( he's at college doing resits) but he picked himself up started going out etc then she straits phoning him saying she wants to get back together so they did . and although he's a popular kid made lots of friends at college all he's done is sit around waiting for her to phone or come down for the weekend. Flash forward to tonite they were meant to be going away in the summer but now she's booked to go away with her friends and only has a little bit of money to go away with him . He turned down going away with his friends because he may miss a day with her !!! Whilst she's partying going away with her mum and living the life of Riley ! I want to pick him up and shake him but can't say anything as 1 he won't take any notice of me! 2 he's got 3 exams coming up which will decide if he actually goes to Uni I know that staying at home this summer ( hopefully working but he won't sort that out until he's booked something with her!) wont kill him.this evening he asked me to help finding flights etc but she won't commit to anything she just says too expensive too late etc. which for her it is I asked why she booked with her friends when she promised him he just hung his head I left the computer and just patted him on the shoulder I wasn't gonna waste any more time . I don't want to sit down and talk to him about it until he's finished his exams equally I font want them to finish ( AGAIN) before these important exams advice lovely MN ers?