Would you let 14yr old DD and 14yr old BF go upstairs?

[SecondhandRose]

Well that is it really. I am not letting them go upstairs alone into her bedroom. They are having a physical relationship, I have no idea how far it has gone. She is giving me all sorts of verbal abuse because of this.

[EdBird]

Simply in answer to the original question, I say yes. Of course it depends on where you start from :/ if generally sensible, good grades at sch, works at sch, helps at home, not too lippy and not a new boy every week etc, then I think it is fine. Sorry to some but I think if they will anyway you may as well meet the lad n let them be comfortable.