Anyone out there with words of advice please? My third daughter, last one at home, who did make me a mothers day card the night before (but I think, did she do that cos her sisters do?) but otherwise gave me NOTHING..not even help or good behaviour, is so selfish and so aggressive it makes me want to cry, or leave home. This isn't helped by the fact I haven't been well lately, have had bronchitus and whooping cough and am still unwell with it.
I was really hurt by her yesterday, and yet today she acts as though it didn't happen and wanted to borrow my skirt. She screams and shouts at me, the dog is terrified by her, and in general unless it's about her is vile. She had a mini i pad for xmas, and despite promising she wouldn't tuck herself away all the time on it, barely comes down for meals. My mum and dad don't like how aggressive she can be to me, and have commented that she seems like a coiled spring. Neither of my other two were like this and I am losing the will to live...or at least to live here as a family. How can I parent someone who unless she gets her own way is vile?