For 14 years myself and my ex have managed to co-parent extremely well. Discussed issues, agreed divisions shared time with our son equally. He is now 15 and doesn't like being at his Dad's. Doesn't want to not see him or go there some weekends but wants to live with me while he works for his exams. Says its more comfortable, I don't shout at him, I am more consistent and reliable. His dad is very, very angry and convinced I just spoil him and let him do what he wants and not have to do any chores or revision. He's even said I'm turning his son against him. Should I make my son go to his Dad's for 50% of his time as it used to be (which will make him extremely unhappy) or continue to try and negotiate a compromise which would mean him living at my house for most of the time at the moment? In the past we've never given him the choice, that felt unfair on him. In hindsight, he's been unhappy with all the going back and forth for some time. My ex is very dominating and I'm a bit scared of him - not physically at all but mentally. Sorry, first time here and probably far too much info!