me and my dd age 15 have to meet a head social worker and a member of the police family liasion unit tomorrow, to cut to the chase, she got herself into a situation last year and it was dealt with. it was done quietly and with as little fuss as possible. we live in n.i so had to fly over to the mainland.
the last year has been hell for her and for me and her dad. she has insisted that she continue to see this boy as she threatened to do something to herself if we didnt. he lives in south of ireland, she eventually agreed to counselling last week so all systems kicked in with social services. we have no problem with ss being invloved, in fact we welcome any help as we are floundering here. we saw a psychiatrist last week and she says dd has no psychiatric illness and that me and dh have done what we can and to keep reassuring her and telling her that we are here for her. the case has now been handed over to a new sw team and the police now have to be involved because of 2 reasons 1, she was underage 2. she now says we forced her into having the procedure. she told me and dh that she would lie for us tomorrow to the police even though we were wrong and that we made her do this. she never, ever indicated to me or the clinic that this was not what she wanted. i fear that the boy is asserting himself over her. i could cry, my dh cant make the meeting tomorrow so its me on my lonesome. i will tell the police and sw that she said she would lie for us. i dont think i can take much more
the first sw who dealt with us over the past fortnight has indicated we can be charged !wtf?
any advice , the meeting is at 10 am tomorrow , please remember me in your thoughts and prayers as i am so frightened