Bit tongue in cheek my title but would be grateful to have others views/advice. My (just) 15 year old yd has been going out with her bf for about 15 months. He is also 15. He is a nice lad and I don't mind having him round. They stay downstairs really. (we have had issues before with her ..mobile "relationship" and "grooming" with 18 yr old when she was just 14, another lad's fully excited(!) penis piccy etc on phone, condoms in her room..think there was an earlier thread about this..tho she assures me they aren't having sex..and I don't think they are..and no I don't snoop but found out by accident)
My question is, how lovey-dovey should I let them be, even if I am a little uncomfortable at times with it..and I don't think I am a prude, and my elder two would definately say I wasn't! My husband particularly objects to them draping all over each other in the back seat of the car when we have been out for the day, particularly when she is half out of her seat belt. He has told her not to, she has a shout and says we are weird, and then does it again. We have repeatedly told her not to,she did the same today,he asked her to sit up straight and she erupted (she is VERY short tempered and can be q nasty even to her boyfriend) and moved to the other side of the car..altho he hadn't told her to do that, just to sit up straight with seatbelt on properly, and she refused to talk for the rest of the hour long journey, staring out of the window and no doubt leaving boyfriend feeling v uncomfortable in the back with her. I have no objection to hand holding, the odd kiss, arms round each other etc
She is always putting us down anyway, and has caused trouble between us in fact, and tells us HIS parents don't mind etc and why do we? Her sisters weren't like this with their boyfriends, and in fact I have always had a good relationship with them and the lads they bought home.