I am really struggling ATM. DD 15 has been going out with first bf for about 6 months. All has gone well until the Summer hols and he seems to have had change of heart. She has been waiting for texts, phone calls etc but he has completely gone off the radar, although he is still out and about with friends etc so still alive!
Dd has spent the Summer making excuses for him, giving him extra chances etc. I wish she could just draw a line under it and accept it's over, but even though he's clearly not interested, she is saying " I'll see how it goes when we're back at school" (they're in same year). I feel she is building up to a major hurt, but she refuses to discuss it with me. What does Mum know after all? It's so hard to step back and watch her be made a mug of. I know I have to let her learn by her own mistakes, but it's HARD!!!!
How does everyone else cope? And do DH's ever help with bf troubles, cos mine doesn't think it's in his job description [hmmm]. It all sounds a bit trivial written down, but I know she is suffering and consequently so am I.