Not saying sorry.

[LynetteScavo]

DS (13yo) threw a small apple off our tree at DD. It hit her thigh hard, and has left a mark.

DS will not say sorry...he claims he isn't sorry.He says she was annoying him (she ^was6 being annoying, I was about to call her into the house), and he did it on purpose.

He has always been like this, but I'm wondering if it's more typical teenage behavior. (My brother was very similar at this age).

I'm also wondering if it would be considered typical Aspergers behavior (he's not diagnosed)

He's not a nasty person generally, so this has unsettled me.

Sounds like what goes on between Ds1 (13) and DS2 (10). DS2 tends to wind DS1 up to the point where he loses his rag and goes OTT, He threw a slipper at DS2 yesterday. I told DS1 off and sent him to his room for the slipper bunging, and sent DS2 to his room for winding up.

Sometimes it's very 6 of one and half a dozen of the other as my Mum would say.

Mine aren't nasty either. They just don't get along all the time.