Verbal aggression

[pinotmonster]

My ds is 14 and gor the last 2/3 yrs has been a nightmare. he was always tricky but things escalated when he started secondary school.

Got excluded - hanging around in wrong crowd smoking including weed police visits you name it!

Now in the last 2 months things have improved he is attending his new school on a oart time timetable and they are pkeased. he has stopped smoking including weed and has restarted football.

However his agression is unbearable - vile to his younger brother and sister and when angry will call me all the names under the sun. he has a very agressive attitude which I hate!! Any ideas????

Sorry I don't know. But hopefully some wise MN'er will come along and tell you how to kick ass get over his delightful behaviour :-)

do you know what made him change his behaviour at school?

hiya i have and still do have the same problem with my sons aggressive outbursts his had violent outburst really since a young age he is 17 now and we thought it would stop but still the same snaps over silly things over sensitive got all holes in my doors upstairs were his punched them swears at me but then after says sorry his real dad whom he hasnt seen for 11yrs was violent to me and my family he had councilling but never changed his behaviuor couldnt get on at secondary school but his behaviour there he was piolite they didnt have an issue with his atitude just his known attendance which i tried my damn best to get him to school had no really help in the end i got to court which made me poorly but as i say the violent outburst havent stoppped u live on a knife edge all the time he dont drink or smoke or never taken drugs as he dosent like tbh the way teenagers are today i think its a lot of frustration in him but as im the closet to him he just dont listen he quite clever but got no confidenence to go college or his apprenticship on his own so he not doing anything i just wondered if there was any agencys that can help him become less angry and get motovated