My 17 year old has just finished school and is 'looking' for a summer job. I use the term 'looking' loosely as so far he's done a bit of looking but not much else. He finished his GCSEs 2 weeks ago and so far has spent the last 14 days doing absolutely nothing and is driving me mad. He's never had a temp job before and he's a year older that his classmates as he had to repeat the year. he'll be 18 in November. he starts college in September but I think he needs to get up off the sofa and look for work and earn his keep. Trouble is , so far I've had to do all the ground work for him. I've tried various suggestions as to where to look , how to write a CV , how to fill in an application form etc but not a lot happens. I took the next step of drafting a CV for him, downloading some application forms for him etc. I don't want to do all of the grafting for him but he's absolutely clueless as to how to go about it. I k ow I should be stepping back and making him take the initiative but it just won't happen.
I suppose I've got find that balance between helping and interfering ! he gets a small monthly allowance at the moment but I feel like telling him that this will stop unless he pulls his finger out.
Must admit though, these application forms are daft . Helped him fill in one yesterday that was about 15 pages long and was more like an isometric test that a flipping summer job application !! took us the best part of an hour. Traipsing round shops with his CV hasn't worked either . It's usually a flat NO. I suppose , if nothing else, it will teach him a valuable life lesson.
Anyone got any tips ?