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DD's friend pulled out of holiday abroad - DILEMMA

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towner · 20/06/2012 14:31

Hopefully someone can give me a bit of guidance on this one!
Earlier in the year, DD decided that she wanted to go to stay with some friends of mine in Italy for 2 weeks at the end of July. A friend of DD said she wanted to go too so I booked the flights through Easyjet at £180 return each. Friends parents have paid me for her flight.
However the friend has now decided she doesn't want to go (with only 4 weeks til take off!). I sent her mum a text yesterday to see what was going on, because if she doesn't go she will loose her £180 and so will I as I am apprehensive about sending a 15 year old through an airport on her own. My friends will be at the other end waiting, but still. Only response I have had is that she would speak to her daughter and let me know. DD had a text / facebook / tweet from the friend last night confirming that she isn't going but as yet I have had radio silence from the mum. I'm sure she is embarrassed etc.

Here is the dilemma - Easyjet will allow me to transfer the flight to another person at a cost of £35 + the difference in the price of the flights from when they were bought in March to today, so total cost today is about £85. If I can find another friend to go, do I ask them to

  1. just pay the £85 and transfer the flight to them with original friend's parents loosing their £180
  2. £85 + £180 for the original flight & give the £180 back to the original friends mum
  3. Pay £180 then pay the original friends parents back ~£95
  4. any other alternative

If my DD doesn't go, do I ask the friends mum for the cost of my daughters flight?

Hope someone can advise!!!

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Whatnamethistime · 26/06/2012 18:50

Im with option 1, its going to be far easier tofind someone to go for £85 than £180

waltermittymissus · 26/06/2012 18:55

I wouldn't even consider refunding their money! It's not your fault that she's pulled out is it?!

Whatnamethistime · 26/06/2012 18:57

I flew on my own at 3,it was common, there was usually a group of children together and a hostess whose job included keeping an eye and hand over.

towner · 23/07/2012 14:32

Just to update, DD went on her own and has now been in Italy for a week & absolutely loves it! Only person in tears at the airport was me (pathetic woman) & she had arrived and had been collected by our friends before I had even got back home.
Thank you everyone who responded to me :)

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ChippingInNeedsCoffee · 23/07/2012 14:39

I'm glad she's having a fab time and isn't lonely :) Brilliant experince for you her!

threeteens · 27/07/2012 11:13

Bravo towner's DD!

My oldest DD flew with a friend at fifteen - they were apprehensive before but exhilarated afterwards at their successful independence.

My sixteen year old is flying unaccompanied for the first time later this summer and I'm really pleased for her - of course we'll both be nervous but I'm sure it'll all go perfectly smoothly and it will be a massive boost to her confidence.

SecondhandRose · 27/07/2012 20:11

My DS flew to France last year and he has trouble crossing the road. She will be fine.

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