I have posted on here a couple of times about my ds. It just seems to be one thing after another. He has been really disruptive at home causing lots of family problems. I feel we get over one issue and another pops up. However I feel this one is getting out of control.
My ds isn't nasty, he is a popular kid in and out of school (yr9). the problem is his school. his school work is really suffering. We have had various phone calls/letters and even meeting at the school to discuss his behavour. We are told he is disruptive in lessons because he is a joker and finds it highly amusing that he gets attention from other kids, so carrys on. He has been moved into a different form class which he has benifited from a tiny bit. (put it this way no phone calls yet!!) . He has now been moved into a different band away from all his old lessions, but is now in different lessions with another load of his mates which I feel he will just do the same..
I have even started to give him pocket money and told him if we don't receive any phone calls etc from the school he will have an additional £5 added for that month, however if we do he will lose £5. I thought this would give him some kind of incentive to behave.
My ds also has a contract with a championship football club and his behavour is reported back to them. Its crunch time next month to see if he gets another two years contract. I just cannot seem to make him understand that he needs to be good otherwise he will lose his contract and lose everything he has been working for since he was 7.
He just says he doesnt care when I know he does!!
I don't know what else to do. If he carrys on he will be expelled from school and that really worrys me.
I would appreciate everyone advice please x