plz help, my step son is 18. he goes to college 3 days a week and works 2-3 days a week. lately he has been staying off college to earn more money which i said is wrong as his education is more important. he lies to his dad and says he isnt needed in college. i try and say something to his dad be he never deals with anything and then me and him fall out because im interfearing. he is going to get kicked off his course. when he is no longer in education and working full time i will lose out on tax credits for my 2 little ones and him. he pays us £20 a week out of his £150, we pay for everything and he does nothing round the house unless i give him his £20 back. last year he stole everything from us that was not tied down and sold it. he is hatefull with me and my kids unless we do as he says and he is cruel to my dogs! he buts in on every conversation me and his dad have and always puts his opinions accross, i was always taught to have respect and he has none. he wont leave us alone for 1 minuite and follows us when ever we try to leave the room and talk. me and my husband are considering splitting up as he wont say anything to him about all this and choses him over me :(
Is this me just moaning??
What should i do?
plz help, thank you.